For people coming back after a career break

You cannot vouch for yourself. Somebody else can.

Build a small team of people who knew your work before the break, and let them say it for you.

Rosa's resume, draft 2 Minor tweaks

Advisor, Dana. Rosa's manager before the break. Stop apologizing for the four years. One line, plain, then move on. I will say publicly that you ran the migration that saved us the quarter, because you did.

Advisor, Ben Do not apply to the Halcyon role through the portal. I know the hiring manager. Let me send you in directly.

Ready to send Minor tweaks Major revision

Where the restart gets stuck

You are not behind. You are unaccompanied.

Writing about the gap

Every version sounds defensive or sorry, and both of those are losing.

A network gone cold

Messaging an old manager only because you need something feels like begging.

Still good at this?

Stale skills or lost nerve? You have nobody honest to ask.

4.9% vs 9.7%

Callbacks for mothers returning from time at home, against mothers who had been unemployed.

Kate Weisshaar, "From Opt Out to Blocked Out," American Sociological Review, 2018.

The way around it

The resume screen is failing you. Skip it.

People who knew your work before the break can vouch for you, and nobody has asked them to.

Somebody names your work

Advisors who worked with you write what you cannot write about yourself.

A role, not a favor

An invitation with a clear role is a different message from "sorry to bother you."

An honest answer

A real verdict on your work: ready to send, minor tweaks or major revision.

"A great deal of talent is lost to the world for want of a little courage."

Sydney Smith

I have not taken a caregiving break, so I will not claim to know yours from the inside. I built this after a long stretch without work, alone, and I would rather hear what is wrong with it. Nathan Rohm, founder

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Name three people who knew your work

Build the team around those three.

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